What If I Change My Mind About Petitioning for My Family Member to Immigrate?

If you are a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident thinking about petitioning for a foreign-born family member who wants to immigrate, you might be wondering what happens if you change your mind. What if something changes—perhaps your relationship with the person falls apart, or your income goes down and you can't afford to sponsor them—will you be able to back out?

The answer depends on how far along you and your relative are in the immigration process, as detailed below. Unfortunately, it's rare to get your money back, unless they've barely opened the envelope; USCIS processing fees are considered nonrefundable. (But if you submitted the I-130 quite recently, you could ask!)

Can You Back Out After Filing I-130 for a Relative But Before USCIS Approves It?

The first step in petitioning for a family member to come to the U.S. as a lawful permanent resident is to fill out Form I-130 (Petition for Alien Relative), created by U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS). It's a fairly simple form, which U.S. petitioners accompany with documents proving their U.S. immigration status (perhaps with a copy of their U.S. passport, naturalization certificate, or green card) and the existence of a family relationship (i.e. with a birth or marriage certificate and, in a marriage case, proof of bona fide marriage).

If you have already sent in Form I-130 to USCIS but the case hasn't gone further, you can "withdraw" your petition. To do so, write a letter to the USCIS office that is processing your petition. Be aware that this might be a different office from where you first filed the I-130. The receipt notice you got from USCIS should give you the office address, and you could doublecheck with USCIS's Contact Center.

The letter should include:

1. your full legal name and date of birth
2. your relative's name and date of birth
3. the "receipt number" for the petition you filed (listed on the Form I-130 "receipt notice," Form I-797)
4. a statement saying that you want to withdraw the petition, and
5. assuming it doesn't reflect badly on your behavior and compliance with U.S. law, your reason for requesting that the petition be withdrawn
6. any relevant documents (such as a divorce decree), and
7. your signature.

Here is sample language for such an I-130 withdrawal letter.

_______________

Dear USCIS:

I filed an I-130 petition for my foreign-born spouse, Anjalina Tolinsky, DOB 12/30/2009. It was received for processing in March of 2025, and the I-797 shows a receipt number of WAC 2501732323.

At this time, I wish to withdraw that petition. Circumstances have changed, such that my spouse no longer wishes to immigrate the United States. Please cease processing of this petition. Thank you.

Sincerely,

Joseph R. Citizen, DOB 2/23/2007

___________________

When you mail it, use some sort of tracking service so that you can, if necessarily, prove that it got there.

A few weeks after mailing this request, you should receive a letter from USCIS acknowledging that you've withdrawn the petition. If you do not receive such an acknowledgment after several weeks, get in touch with the agency through its Contact Center, or consider having a qualified attorney help you make sure that USCIS has "cancelled" the petition.

Can You Back Out After USCIS Has Approved the I-130 Petition for Your Relative?

Even after USCIS has approved the I-130 petition for your relative, you can still withdraw it if you act quickly, ideally before either:

• USCIS has made a "final decision" on your relative's adjustment of status application (Form I-485, used if the person filed the application while living in the U.S.), or
• your relative has received an immigrant visa from an overseas U.S. consulate.

In other words, you'll want to interrupt the process before your family member receives approval for a green card. Start by sending the same sort of letter described above to the USCIS office that approved your I-130 petition.

Then, if your family member is living overseas, also sent a a signed written statement to the National Visa Center (NVC), an intermediary between USCIS and overseas U.S. consulates, using its Public Inquiry Form. The NVC should send you a written acknowledgment of the withdrawal, also within a period of weeks.

Can You Back Out After the U.S. Has Approved Your Relative's Green Card Based on Your Petition?

If your relative already has either received an immigrant visa (from an overseas U.S. consulate) and traveled to the United States with it (thus becoming a U.S. lawful permanent resident upon entry) or received USCIS approval for a U.S. green card (after submitting an adjustment of status application), your options are more limited.

You can write a letter to USCIS requesting that the petition be rescinded. But the agency will probably not respond unless you are telling it about some sort of fraud.

Legal Consequences of Withdrawing an I-130

Under everyday circumstances, a withdrawal will not cause any significant long-term legal harm to the petitioner or would-be immigrant. One exception would be if the immigrant's status in the United States is now solely based on a pending I-485 application for adjustment of status, in which case their presence would be considered unlawful (i.e. they should leave) and their work permit (EAD) if any, considered invalid.

And a longer-term but less likely exception might occur if the U.S. petitioner makes a habit of withdrawing visa petitions and then files another. See, for example, Can You Petition Fiancé for K-1 Visa After Cancelling Previous Petitions?.

If there's any hint that fraud is involved, however, USCIS will want to know when you found out about the fraud and whether you were involved in it.

For example, if you allege that the immigrant married you for a green card rather than for love, USCIS might want to make sure that you weren't actually a willing, perhaps paid participant in this scam. (Penalties for marriage fraud can be severe.) There can be penalties, including jail time and fines, if you lied on the I-130 petition. Second, USCIS might use information that you share with it to deny a petition that you file in the future for the same or a different relative.

But what if you withdraw your petition for reasons unrelated to fraud or misrepresentation? Let's say, for example, that your relationship has changed or you can't afford to sponsor your relative anymore. In such situations, you should feel free to ask USCIS to cancel the petition. What's more, you shouldn't have any problems if you decide to file another family-based immigration petition in the future.

Getting Legal Help With the I-130 Withdrawal

Because this is a touchy situation, where you want quick action but without raising any red flags in the eyes of U.S government officials, your best bet is to proceed with caution and talk to an immigration attorney before taking action. The attorney can evaluate your situation, propose a strategy, and draft a clear and convincing cover letter on your behalf.