North Carolina Home Funeral Laws

If you're interested in holding a home funeral in North Carolina, you'll need to be aware of the laws that govern home funerals.

Do You Need a Funeral Director in North Carolina?

In all states, it's legal to have your loved one's body at home after they die. North Carolina doesn't require you to involve a licensed funeral director in making or carrying out final arrangements. (See, for example, N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-115 (2024), which permits "the funeral director or person acting as funeral director" to file the death certificate.)

North Carolina law requires anyone who assumes custody of a body to file a "notification of death" form with the local registrar within 24 hours of taking custody of the body. You can obtain the form at the local registrar's office. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-112 (2024).)

Who Has the Right to Make Funeral Arrangements?

North Carolina law determines who has the right to make final decisions about a person's body and funeral services. The responsibility to make your funeral decisions goes to the following people, in order:

• a person you appoint in a written document, including a health care power of attorney or other written statement that meets the requirements of North Carolina law
• your surviving spouse
• a majority of your adult children who can be located after reasonable efforts
• your parents
• a majority of your adult siblings who can be located after reasonable efforts
• a majority of the individuals in the classes of the next degrees of kinship to you who can be located after reasonable efforts
• a person who exhibited special care and concern for you and who is willing and able to make decisions about the disposition of your body
• a public official
• an institutional representative, or
• any other person willing to assume responsibility.

(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-420 (2024).)

Appointing Your Decision Maker

To name someone to carry out your final wishes, you need only write down what you want, then date and sign the document in front of two adult witnesses. You may use any form you like. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-420 (2024).)

Making a Health Care Power of Attorney

One smart way to name a representative to handle your funeral plans is to make a North Carolina health care power of attorney. In your document, you can give your health care agent explicit power to carry out your final arrangements. This saves the trouble of making separate documents for health care decisions and final wishes. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-420 (2024).)

For information about making a health care power of attorney, see Living Wills & Medical Powers of Attorney.

To make a North Carolina health care power of attorney that appoints your health care agent to carry out your final plans, you can use Nolo's Quicken WillMaker.

Note that, if you're in the military, you may name the person who will carry out your final wishes in the Record of Emergency Data provided by the Department of Defense.

Who Pays for Your Funeral Arrangements?

You can plan for how your funeral arrangements will be paid. You can either pay for your plans before you die, or you can set aside money for your survivors to use for this purpose. If you don't do either of these things, and there's not enough money in your estate to pay for funeral goods and services, your survivors must cover the costs.

Must the Body Be Embalmed?

North Carolina has no embalming requirements, nor does state law specify a time frame within which you must dispose of the remains.

Refrigeration or dry ice can usually preserve a body for a short time. There are resources available to help you learn to prepare a body at home for burial or cremation. The website of the National Home Funeral Alliance is a good place to start.

If the person died of a contagious disease, you should consult a doctor.

How Do You Get a Death Certificate?

If you won't be using a funeral director to carry out final arrangements, you must complete and file the death certificate yourself. North Carolina law requires you to file the death certificate with the local registrar of vital statistics within five days after the death. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-115 (2024).)

North Carolina now uses an electronic death registration system. The deceased person's doctor, physician assistant, nurse practitioner, or medical examiner will supply the medical certification portion of the death certificate, sign it, and fill in the date, time, and cause of death. This must be done within three days of the death. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-115 (2024).)

You will need certified copies of the death certificate to carry out certain tasks after the death, such as arranging for the disposition of the body and transferring the deceased person's property to inheritors. You might be able to file the death certificate and get certified copies on the same day. If not, you will have to make a return trip to pick up the copies. Be prepared to pay a small fee for each copy.

How Do You Get a Permit to Transport the Body?

The deceased person's doctor or the medical examiner will grant permission to move the body for final disposition. North Carolina requires you to obtain a burial-transit permit only if the death is under the jurisdiction of the medical examiner or the body will be transported out of the state. If the body is under the medical examiner's jurisdiction, the medical examiner must issue and sign the burial-transit permit within five days after the death. In cases where the body isn't under the medical examiner's jurisdiction and will leave the state for final disposition, the local registrar will issue the burial-transit permit. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-113 (2024).)

Can You Bury a Body on Private Property?

There are no laws in North Carolina that prohibit home burial, but you should check local zoning rules before conducting a backyard burial or establishing a family cemetery. You can most likely hold a home burial if you live in a rural area.

North Carolina requires all cemeteries to be at least 300 feet from a public water supply. (15A N.C. Admin. Code 18C.0203 (2024).) State law also requires the top of each "burial vault or other encasement" to be at least 18 inches below the surface of the ground. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 65-77 (2024).)

What Are North Carolina's Cremation Laws?

Some crematories require that you use a funeral director to arrange cremation. If you don't want to use a funeral director, make sure the crematory is willing to accept the body directly from the family. In North Carolina, the medical examiner must authorize cremation or burial at sea, unless the death was from "a natural disease" and occurred in a hospital. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-388 (2024).)

There is a required waiting period of 24 hours before cremation may occur unless it's waived by the medical examiner due to communicable disease. (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 90-210.129 (2024.)

North Carolina law permits cremated remains to be:

• placed in a crypt, niche, or grave
• scattered in a "scattering garden" in a cemetery
• scattered over uninhabited public land, the sea, or other public waterway, or
• disposed of in "any manner on the private property of a consenting owner."

(N.C. Gen. Stat. § 90-210.130 (2024).)

For more information about cremation, including additional information on scattering ashes, see Burial and Cremation Laws in North Carolina.

Getting Help With Home Funerals

Even the staunchest home funeral advocates know that learning to care for one's dead can be difficult, especially during a time of grief. If you need help, there are people available to coach you through the process. You can find local guides, consultants, and other resources by visiting the National Home Funeral Alliance website.

For more information about final arrangements and documenting your final wishes in advance, see Nolo's section on Getting Your Affairs in Order.