Many people these days are having trouble either making child support payments or caring for their children on their existing child support because of a change in their work or living situation. If you are paying or receiving child support, there may come a time when you feel the existing support order should be changed. How can you go about making that happen?
Your first step should be to see whether you and the other parent can reach agreement to modify the child support terms. If you can, you can just ask a judge to approve the change -- that shouldn't be a problem unless the amount you agree to is way below your state's guidelines. In that case you'll need to explain why the agreement is justified and how the amount agreed to will provide adequately for the children's support.
If you and your ex can't agree on a change, you'll need to ask for a court hearing in which each of you can argue for the amount you think is appropriate. As a general rule, in order to get a modification you must be able to show that something about your circumstances has changed since the court made the existing order. Depending on the nature of the changed circumstances, the court may make either a temporary or a permanent modification. Examples of the types of changes that support temporary modification orders include:
A permanent modification may be awarded if:
A permanent modification of a child support order will remain in effect until support is no longer required or the order is modified at a later time because of a new set of changed circumstances.
If you're the paying spouse and you are unable to pay your support because you've lost your job or your income has dropped significantly, make sure you take steps right away to get the support amount changed. Any support payments that you don't make become what's called "arrears," and there's no way to make them go away other than paying them. They can't be discharged in bankruptcy, and they can't be reduced by a judge retroactively. If your ex won't agree quickly to a change, then you should immediately file a motion with the court. And if your ex does agree, get it in writing and have a judge approve it. If you don't, and your ex later has a change of heart, the original support order will apply and you'll be on the hook for whatever you didn't pay.
Some child support orders include a COLA clause, which provides that payments are to increase annually at a rate equal to the annual cost of living increase, as determined by an economic indicator (such as the Consumer Price Index). This eliminates the need for modification requests based solely on cost of living increases. If your child support order does not include a COLA clause, it may be a good idea to add one now.
To learn more about child support, see Nolo's Essential Guide to Divorce, by Emily Doskow (Nolo). To learn about your state's laws on child support, go to the Child Support section on DivorceNet.com. To estimate child support based on your state's child support guidelines, go to www.alllaw.com and click on the link for your state.