Can an Extramarital Affair Really Disqualify You From Naturalization?

Cheating on one's spouse might be seen by USCIS as evidence of bad moral character, leading to denial of your N-400 application for U.S. citizenship.

Updated 5/07/2024

If you are a lawful permanent resident who has had an extramarital affair within the years leading up to submitting your N-400 naturalization application, it is possible you might not qualify for U.S. citizenship. The reason is that applicants need to show good moral character (GMC) during the same years as they need to have held permanent residence before naturalizing (usually the past five years, but three years for some spouses of U.S. citizens).

Whether you qualify to naturalize in spite of your extramarital affair will depend on the timing, facts, and other details of what happened, as described below.

Good Moral Character and Extramarital Affairs

As an applicant for naturalization, you must demonstrate good moral character (GMC) for a specific period of time. This might be one year, three years, or five years. For most people, the GMC period is five years. Special residency rules might apply to residents married to U.S. citizens, immigrants who have served in the military, and battered spouses of U.S. citizens.

Sex outside of marriage used to be considered automatic evidence of bad moral character. That is no longer the case. But cheating on a spouse is still considered bad moral character. Examiners at U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) are taught to ask more detailed questions if they find evidence of an extramarital affair.

What's the difference? Mostly it depends on whether you were living with your spouse when you had the affair, and whether your spouse had full knowledge of the relationship. An outside relationship when you and your spouse are separated, or an outside relationship that your spouse knows about and accepts won't be considered evidence of bad moral character.

On the other hand, if you were still living with your spouse when you had the affair and if your spouse did not know and approve of the relationship, that will be considered cheating, and evidence of bad moral character. This is especially true if your affair led to your divorce.

So, if your application for naturalization indicates that you have had an extramarital relationship, the USCIS officer who interviews you and reviews your case will want more details about your situation.

What Evidence of an Extramarital Affair Will USCIS Likely Find?

The most common evidence of an extramarital affair is that the applicant had one or more children born or conceived with one person while still married to someone else. This is not difficult for USCIS to figure out. Because an affair is no longer automatically considered to show bad moral character, USCIS officers are trained to ask follow-up questions. They will want to know whether you were separated from your spouse when you had the affair. They will especially want to know whether your affair caused the breakup of your marriage.

You are required to list ALL your children on your N-400 application for naturalization. This includes adopted children and stepchildren, as well as all biological children. The form requires you to state the date and country of birth of each child, where each child currently lives, and whether you have ever failed to support them.

While Form N-400 does not ask you to name the other parent of each of your children, if the officer spots oddities, for instance, if you are the father of two children born less than nine months apart, or if you are a married woman who took your husband's surname but your child's surname is different.

The second most common evidence of an extramarital affair is children born during a marriage that ended in divorce, where the divorce decree does not include or make financial support arrangements for the child. Sometimes a divorce decree will state that a child born during the marriage is not the child of both parties; other times the divorce decree will simply fail to mention the child. In either case, USCIS examiners read through divorce decrees carefully, and they will notice when facts don't match up neatly.

Finally, you will need to prove that you are current on all child support obligations. If, for example, you have been taken to court and required to pay child support for children born to one person while you were married to someone else, that is also clear evidence of an extramarital affair.

Under What Circumstances Will USCIS Most Likely Approve an N-400 After an Extramarital Affair?

If you are still married and living with the same spouse, and the affair occurred during a period of marital difficulty that you have now worked through and resolved, USCIS will probably approve your case. If you and your spouse were already separated and in the process of divorce at the time of the affair, your application will probably be approved. If you are separated due to domestic violence by your spouse, or for some other reason you did not cause (your spouse is or was incarcerated), even if you are still married, your case may be approved.

Strategies to Avoid USCIS Denying Your U.S. Citizenship Application Due to an Extramarital Affair

As a general rule, if you were still living with your spouse when you had the affair, USCIS will rule that your affair contributed to your divorce. If that is the case, or if you know that your affair contributed to the breakup of your marriage, then the only way to be certain that your application will not be denied is to wait five years (or the length of your required GMC period) from the end of the affair or from the date of your divorce (whichever comes first) before applying for naturalization.

Getting Legal Help

Hiring an immigration attorney can be a good idea if there's a chance that USCIS could deny your U.S. citizenship application based on an extramarital affair. The attorney can suggest the best time for you to submit your application, help you gather evidence showing that the reasons behind a broken-up marriage weren't only the affair, write a cover letter summarizing the evidence and arguing for your GMC, and accompany you to your naturalization interview with USCIS.

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