Living Together

by: Attorney Ralph Warner , Attorney Frederick Hertz , Toni Ihara, J.D.

Living Together

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When you’re married, all kinds of laws affect your relationship. There are clear rules about each spouse’s financial responsibilities, parenting rights, property ownership, inheritance rights, and much more.

If you’re part of an unmarried couple, though, you’re on your own. You and your partner need to take responsibility for making your own arrangements and agreements to protect each other.

This book explains where to start.  It tells you what issues you need to cover and provides the forms you need to put your wishes in writing. For example, unmarried partners  (unlike spouses) don’t have any right to inherit from each other, so one of the first items on your to-do list should be to write wills, leaving each other whatever property you choose.  Similarly, unmarried partners don’t have the right to make medical decisions on each other’s behalf, if it becomes necessary—so item #2 might be to write health care directives and powers of attorney.

The book also covers the legal aspects of buying a house together, starting a family, and debt and credit.

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