In New Hampshire, you may name the person who will carry out your funeral arrangements. You can also provide detailed instructions about your final wishes and set aside funds to cover your funeral expenses, including the costs of burial or cremation.
New Hampshire law determines who can make decisions about funerals and body disposition -- that is, burial or cremation -- after someone dies. This right and responsibility goes either to a person you appoint before your death or to your next of kin. (New Hampshire Statutes § 290:17.)
If your next of kin is two or more people with the same relationship to you -- for example, your three adult children -- decisions must be made by a majority of them. If they can’t agree, a court will have to intervene. (New Hampshire Statutes § 290:17III.) To avoid such an outcome, it’s best to name a representative in advance.
How to appoint your representative. To make a valid document naming someone to carry out your funeral arrangements, you need only write down what you want, then sign and date your document. (New Hampshire Statutes § 290:17I.)
Naming your representative in an advance directive. One smart way to appoint a representative is to complete an advance health care directive naming a health care agent. In your document, you can give your agent explicit power to carry out your final arrangements. (You must make this authority clear in your advance directive document; otherwise your agent’s decision-making power ends upon your death.) This saves the trouble of making separate documents for health care decisions and final wishes.
For information about making an advance directive, see New Hampshire Living Wills and Advance Directives.
To make a New Hampshire advance directive that appoints your health care agent to carry out your final plans, you can use Nolo’s Quicken WillMaker Plus software.
If you’re in the military. You may name the person who will carry out your final wishes in the Record of Emergency Data provided by the Department of Defense.
The average funeral costs more than $7,000, according to the National Funeral Directors Association. This figure doesn’t cover many common expenses such as cemetery costs, markers, flowers, or obituaries. For many people, after a house and a car, funeral goods and services are the most expensive thing they’ll ever buy. It’s wise to make a plan to pay for these costs.
You have two basic options for covering your funeral expenses, including the costs of burial or cremation. You can:
If you don’t do either of these things, your survivors must cover the costs of your funeral arrangements.
Paying in advance. If you want to pay for your funeral arrangements ahead of time, make sure you’re dealing with a reputable funeral establishment and clearly document any plans you make, so your survivors can easily carry them out. Though the law requires providers of funeral goods and services to carefully manage your funds (see New Hampshire Statutes § 325:46-a), abuses do happen. What’s more, if a funeral establishment goes out of business, your careful planning may be lost.
For more information, see The Prepaid Funeral and Its Perils.
Setting aside funds. The safest and easiest way to cover the costs of your final arrangements is to estimate costs and tuck away the funds in an easily accessible, interest-earning bank account. You can designate a beneficiary who can claim the funds immediately after your death. Make sure the beneficiary understands what the money is for, however, and that you trust him or her completely, because the beneficiary is under no legal obligation to use the funds for your final arrangements.
For more information about setting up an account to cover the costs of your final arrangements, see Payable-on-Death (POD) Accounts: The Basics.
Beyond simply naming a representative to carry out your final plans, letting your survivors know what kind of funeral arrangements you want -- including your wishes for ceremonies and whether you want to be buried or cremated -- will save them the difficulty of making these decisions during an emotional and stressful time. You can include your detailed final wishes with the written document that names your representative.
Nolo offers several tools to help you compose your wishes for final arrangements. Each one walks you step-by-step through the process, so you won’t miss any important issues.
While there are many ways to write down your wishes for final arrangements and make them clear, it's not a good idea to put them in your will. Your will may not be read until weeks after your death -- far too late to help your survivors. It’s better to prepare a separate document.
Store your final arrangements paperwork in a safe place and be sure your loved ones know where to look when the time comes. It may be helpful to make copies and tell them where to find the originals when they’re needed. If you do so, be sure to keep a list of everyone with copies, in case you need to get them back and change them later.
To find all the laws covering funeral arrangements in New Hampshire, visit the website of the Board of Registration of Funeral Directors and Embalmers.
For consumer protection information, see the Funeral Consumers Alliance.
To learn more about making your final arrangements, see Getting Your Affairs in Order on Nolo.com.
For details on the rules that control disposing of remains in New Hampshire, see Burial and Cremation Laws in New Hampshire.