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Retire Happy

What You Can Do Now to Guarantee a Great Retirement

Publication Date February 2008
Edition 1
ISBN 9781413308358
Pages 264 pp
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A great retirement isn’t just about having your financial situation in order.

It’s easy to be preoccupied with stock portfolios, 401(k) balances and saving options, but true happiness in retirement comes from simpler, more enjoyable things like an active social life, family time and leisurely travel.

In Retire Happy: What You Can Do Now to Guarantee a Great Retirement, author Rich Stim and Nolo co-founder Jake Warner show you how to become rich in the ways that matter most. They encourage you to balance financial concerns with a lifestyle you always envisioned for yourself.

The book advises you on how to estimate real retirement needs and create a workable savings and investment plan. Even more importantly, it advises you to make personal preparations for life after work, including:

  • cultivating interests outside work
  • leading a healthier lifestyle
  • revitalizing family relationships
  • spending more time with spouses
  • embracing spirituality or meditation
  • nurturing friendships and making new friends

All the money in the world won't make for a happy retirement unless you're satisfied with the rest of your life. So start today.

Table of Contents

Will You Really Retire?

1. Start Your Planning (and Dreaming) Now

  • The Four Things You Need in Retirement
  • Look Outward and Inward

2. Invest in Your Health

  • Four Conditions You Should Treat Now
  • Exercise and Diet
  • Three More Tips

3. Strengthen Family Ties

  • How Strong Are Your Family Ties?
  • Five Ways to Improve Family Function
  • Couples Power: The Tie That Binds
  • If One Spouse Retires Before the Other

4. Appreciate Friends, Old and New

  • Friends: Many Concepts—One Goal
  • Four Paths to Friendship
  • Members of Couples: Find Friends Who Are Yours Alone
  • Those Furry Friends

5. Develop Lifelong Interests and Activities Now

  • Volunteer
  • Do the Things You Always Meant To
  • Educate Yourself

6. Figure Out Your Number

  • Using Online Retirement Calculators
  • The Choices and Variables Underlying Your Number
  • A Do-It-Yourself Retirement Calculator

7. Convert Debt Into Retirement Savings

  • Can You Avoid Car Payments?
  • Heading Into Retirement With Credit Card Debt?
  • Should You Prepay Your Mortgage?

8. Where Will the Money Come From?

  • It’s Not Too Late to Begin
  • What to Expect From Social Security
  • Employer Pension Plans
  • Individual Retirement Savings Plans: IRAs and 401(k)s
  • Withdrawing Money From Your 401(k), IRA, or Annuity
  • Savings and Investments
  • Inheritances and Gifts
  • Early Retirement Incentives and Buyouts
  • Reverse Mortgages
  • Immediate-Fixed Annuities

9. Growing and Protecting Retirement Assets

  • The Safe Withdrawal Approach
  • What Are Your Investment Choices?
  • Cash: Lowest Risk, Low Returns
  • Bonds: Low to Moderate Risk, Low to Moderate Returns
  • Individual Stocks: High Risk, Varying Returns
  • Mutual Funds: Varying Risks, Varying Returns
  • Making Choices, and Sticking by (Some of) Them
  • Investing in and Profiting From Real Estate
  • Getting Help: Financial Planners, Advisers, and Brokers

10. Working After Retirement

  • Start Planning Now
  • Whether to Work and Collect Social Security
  • Legal Rules Protecting Older Workers

Index

Sample Content

  • Chapter 1: Start Your Planning (and Dreaming) Now

Introduction

Picture your retirement. Do you see yourself swinging contentedly on a hammock, a great-grandchild smiling in your lap, your golf clubs nearby? Or do you see yourself counting off the hours on your new gold-plated watch, fearful that you’ll outlive your savings? In his book Stumbling on Happiness, psychologist Daniel Gilbert explains that when it comes to prospection (looking forward in time), humans have conflicting impulses. On one hand, we like to daydream about a future in which we’re "achieving and succeeding rather than fumbling or failing." On the other hand, we have a tendency to create futures that are frightening. Our forecasts become "fearcasts," whose purpose is "not to predict the future so much as to preclude it."

Neither of these approaches works well for retirement planning. If you want to retire happy, you’ll need to put away the crystal ball and look in the mirror. That’s because the true predictors of a satisfying retirement—money, health, social connections, and interesting activities—are controlled more by what you do today than what you think you’ll do when you retire. Though it sounds like a cliché, retirement is truly a journey, not a destination. And by beginning your journey today, you’ll be a seasoned and happy traveler when you finally pass through the retirement portal.

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The Four Things You Need in Retirement

Let’s look closer at those four factors that are so important for a happy and satisfying retirement:

  • money
  • health
  • a network of friends and family, and
  • engaging and enjoyable activities.

Where did we get this list? It’s derived from common sense, scientific studies, and from the insights and reflections shared by many retirees who coauthor Ralph (Jake) Warner interviewed. We’ll discuss each of these in more detail in later chapters, but first, take a closer look.

Money

You can’t retire happily without money, right? Like financial guru Suze Orman says, "Nothing more directly affects your happiness than money." Or maybe rocker David Lee Roth said it better: "Money can’t buy you happiness, but it can buy you a yacht big enough to pull up right alongside it."

Accumulating an appropriate amount of money for your retirement years is inescapably important. We’ll discuss what’s needed—your "Number," as it’s referred to in the media—and ways to shield and grow your savings. We’ll also discuss what to do if you can’t seem to hit that magic number—a burden many eventual retirees are carrying.

But this book diverges from those financial experts and retirement advisers who believe that the accumulation of a giant nest egg should be your sole retirement goal. With a narrow outlook like theirs, you could find yourself like the insecure couple profiled in a 2007 USA TODAY article, unsure whether they had enough money to retire, even with nearly $2 million in assets, a monthly stream of income of $4,200 from Social Security and pensions, and a paid-off home and partial ownership of two rental co-ops.

Yes, money is important. But it’s only one element of the retirement picture, and it’s possible that you don’t need as much as you think you do. It’s best to approach the dire warnings about how much money you’ll need in retirement with a dose of skepticism, keeping in mind that some of those warnings come from people who’d like to make money off your retirement planning. One of our interview subjects, Babette Marks, a retired teacher, expressed it succinctly: "Most people now in their 40s and 50s will have more than enough money if they will just adjust their lifestyle to what they have, which, of course, is already much more than most people in the world will ever have and probably far more than their own grandparents enjoyed."

You can start your financial planning now by following the advice in subsequent chapters (especially Chapters 6 through 9). Our goal is to provide clearheaded financial advice based on common sense, historical patterns, and financial discipline.

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Good health

You may believe that by middle age, it’s too late to reverse the damage created by an unhealthy lifestyle. Not true. Miriam Nelson, associate professor at the Friedman School of Nutrition Science, told USA TODAY , "All the research shows that what you do now is far more important than what you did when you were younger. We work with people well into their 80s and 90s. The body’s capacity to get stronger and to be healthier and happier is still there." Still, old habits can be hard to break, so don’t wait. Your health at age 65 is determined to a great extent by how you behave today.

As Dr. Thomas Perls, the lead author of Living to 100: Lessons in Living to Your Maximum Potential at Any Age, explains, "Many people still believe the myth that ‘the older you get the sicker you get,’ when in fact our studies and those of other researchers are revealing that it is much more accurately the case that ‘the older you get, the healthier you’ve been.’"

We’ve included a chapter on health, because we believe—and statistics verify—that by investing in your health now, you can improve your odds of both living to retirement age and enjoying it once you get there.

You can start improving your health now by reviewing the four most common and fixable health issues for retirees—high blood pressure, smoking, high cholesterol, and obesity—and making changes to your habits and diet. In addition, and perhaps more importantly, you can start an enjoyable exercise routine that will carry you into retirement, even if it’s just brisk daily walks. We provide more health solutions in Chapter 2.

Good news! There is no leading cause of death for people who live past the age of 100.

A network of friends and family

Studies have shown that the most powerful predictor of life satisfaction after retirement is the size of your social network. So, whether it’s your family, your church, or your book club, maintaining a quilt of family and friends will be an essential and comforting aspect of retirement.

But how many of us are spending enough time with friends and family now, in order to develop or maintain that network? Just making a living and dealing with day-to-day events can easily absorb all our time. Yet ignoring social contacts at the expense of gathering your nest egg can backfire, and you may find that it’s impossible to renew relationships that have atrophied.

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You can start improving your social network now by assessing your current relationship with friends and, if possible, mending broken relationships with family members. In case you’re out of practice, now may also be the time to relearn how to make new friends. We discuss family and friends in Chapters 3 and 4.

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Engaging and enjoyable activities

In 2006, USA TODAY reporter Mindy Fetterman wrote that when life spans were shorter, social scientists and financial planners saw two phases to retirement: "Go" and "No Go." "In the first phase you took maybe a couple of vacations, visited your grandkids, and messed around in the a) garage or b) garden. Then your health declined, you slowed down and, well, you know the rest."

Now that we’re living longer—20 or 30 years longer than previous generations—the time between "Go" and "No Go" has extended to two or three decades. When asked what they plan to do with this time, potential retirees usually respond with vague lists of activities. The problem is that attempting to narrow in on and start up these activities after you retire can prove frustrating.

You can begin staying active and connected now by assessing your interests and determining whether, and in some cases exactly where, you’d like to work, volunteer, travel, study, or pursue personal projects. In Chapter 6, we explain how to begin.

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Look Outward and Inward

Your retirement years are likely to consist of a number of messy—and sometimes scary—personal transitions, beginning on the very day you retire. Some changes will be unpredictable, such as a stock market downturn, a rise in your blood pressure, or financial requests from a pregnant granddaughter. If these prospects worry you, think back and remind yourself how many major changes you’ve already weathered: perhaps leaving home for the first time, marrying (or forming another close relationship), parenting, changing jobs, or dealing with the death of a loved one.

To deal with life’s curveballs, you’ll need to look outward and inward. An outward view means looking at how people you admire have aged, grown, and changed to meet the challenge of living well in later life.

The first country with more than one-fifth of its population over 65? Japan, starting in 1993.

Start this process now, and when you find older people you admire, arrange to spend some time together. If one of them is so busy that it’s hard to make an appointment, you know you’ve found someone worth talking to. Don’t be afraid to ask tough questions, whether they’re about experiencing loneliness, poverty, a decline in sexuality, boredom, or death itself. We’ve found that most successful retirees have developed strategies to cope with all of these issues—and probably a bunch more you haven’t thought of—and will be pleased to pass them on to you.

But more importantly, they will almost surely provide you with a positive vision of the excitement and growth possible at a time of life when there are fewer day-to-day responsibilities.

At the same time, you’ll need to look inward. A successful retirement doesn’t result solely from a plan; it results from your ability to adapt and modify as things change.

Do some soul-searching about who you are now and who you want to be in retirement. Some people do this sort of thinking by themselves, alone in their car or on a hike in the woods. As part of this exercise, try to ask and answer one essential question: Is the inner me well-prepared for the final one-third of my life?

You may be tempted to answer, "How would the inner me know? It’s never retired before." But retirement is simply another life transition. So, look at how the inner you coped with previous difficult life transitions. If you didn’t do very well—except perhaps to fool others that you were fine—think about how you could improve your coping skills, maybe by talking to someone about any anxieties and demons.

Breaking through your sense of isolation can be the first real step toward surmounting huge problems. Listening to and learning from the insights and experiences of people you respect is also valuable. Then you’ll be ready to incorporate this knowledge into a new version of yourself— one with a little more humility, flexibility, and hopefully wisdom.

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