Questions:

• Why should I leave written instructions about my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?
• Why not leave instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body in my will?
• Where is the best place to leave written instructions for my final arrangements?
• What happens if I don't leave written instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?
• What details should I include in a final arrangements document?
• What services can I expect from a mortuary?
• Where can I turn for help in choosing cost-effective mortuary services and burial arrangements?

Answer:

Why should I leave written instructions about my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?

Letting your survivors know your wishes spares them the difficulty of making these decisions at a painful time. And many family members and friends find that discussing these matters ahead of time is great relief -- especially if a person is elderly or in poor health and death is expected soon.

Making plans can also save money. For many people, death goods and services cost more than anything they bought during their lives except homes and cars. Some wise comparison shopping in advance can ensure that costs will be controlled.