Final Arrangements FAQ

Questions:

• Why should I leave written instructions about my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?
• Why not leave instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body in my will?
• Where is the best place to leave written instructions for my final arrangements?
• What happens if I don't leave written instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?
• What details should I include in a final arrangements document?
• What services can I expect from a mortuary?
• Where can I turn for help in choosing cost-effective mortuary services and burial arrangements?

Answer:

What details should I include in a final arrangements document?

What you choose to include is a personal matter likely to be dictated by custom, religious preference, or simply your own whims. A typical final arrangements document might include:

• whether you want your remains to be buried or cremated
• the name of the mortuary or other institution that will handle burial or cremation
• whether or not you want your body to be embalmed
• the type of casket or container in which your remains will be buried or cremated, including whether you want it present at any after-death ceremony
• the details of any ceremony you want before the burial or cremation
• who your pallbearers will be if you wish to have some
• how your remains will be transported to the cemetery and gravesite
• where your remains will be buried, stored, or scattered
• the details of any ceremony you want to accompany your burial, interment, or scattering, and
• the details of any marker you want to show where your remains are buried or interred.

For more guidance, see Planning Your Funeral or Memorial Service.