Final Arrangements FAQ

Questions:

• Why should I leave written instructions about my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?
• Why not leave instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body in my will?
• Where is the best place to leave written instructions for my final arrangements?
• What happens if I don't leave written instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body?
• What details should I include in a final arrangements document?
• What services can I expect from a mortuary?
• Where can I turn for help in choosing cost-effective mortuary services and burial arrangements?

Answer:

Why not leave instructions for my final ceremonies and the disposition of my body in my will?

A will is not a good place to express your death and burial preferences for one simple reason: Your will might not be located and read until several weeks after you die -- long after decisions must be made.

A will should be reserved for directions on how to divide and distribute your property and, if applicable, who should get care and custody of your children if you die while they're still young.